happybobo---I think that you are just going to have to understand;her feelings.For example:I like people;that I can really
get to know and depend on!My wife;on the other hand;is the kind
of person;that is very secretive&personal.She believes in only
sharing with me.I value close friendships;&believe in sharing with
a few people that I trust.In my previous lifestyle;you would do
anything for a friend&expect the same from them.I have been married to my wife for long enough that we understand&respect;
each others ways.Your wife might not understand your fixation.
It all amounts to understanding each others priorities!Different
strokes;for different folks!We both know that the other is a good
person.The priorities are just different. Irish

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Irish---Better to be dead & cool,then alive & uncool!
(Harley Davidson & the Marlboro Man)