boilergirl1

This is so much bigger than the fact she saw some shit when she was young.

This is a CNN-class cry for help, and this is the domain of really competent shrinks.

No matter what we say to help, it's like using Lego blocks to chock a truck on a hill.

We can be supportive of you till the Waratahs win a Grand Final (2020 if they're lucky),

but this is serious shit out of our hands and needs a pro (not PF, wrong pro).

Your basic input needs to be from professionals who are so placed that they can meaningfully intercede.

All you can do is be a Mum and try and cushion any bottoming out.

Be warned that taking too much on board may drag both of you down without resolving

the basic issue (they say).

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