Seems to be your damned if you do and damned if you don't. The sorry part is that even if the wife was told, would she believe it or think that Jenna did all of the seducing? What purpose would it serve to tell? I think that would bring more shit down anyway. I guess I would wonder why you, Jenna, are worried about the information getting back to him and have him worry about whether you are saying it or not? He is a jerk - you did nothing wrong. You didn't do the chasing or barging into the bathroom when he was already in it - he did. If anything, he deserves a good ass kicking for trying to take advantage of you. Hell, I know that I could probably gather a few Pixies and meet him in a dark alley for ya...

You told him no quite a few times. You did nothing wrong as far as I am concerned. God!!! This just pisses me off - you were a victim and now the implication is that you were wrong...not him.

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