Ranger1930 .... life can be harsh sometimes, VERY harsh sometimes, but hold on tight, it can also be incredibly wonderful sometimes and those moments will come in your life as well .... people are human and so yes, most of us have times when we lie ... not necessarily to hurt others, sometimes we're so busy lieing to ourselves that we don't even notice others get caught in the cross-fire of those lies. we're human and we make mistakes, but we're human and we learn to love (if we don't let ourselves get caught and begin to wallow in the murky muddy stuff of life). ... I guess what I'm trying to say is, you're a good guy and people care about you, and that means you care about people as well .... and even though that sometimes means you get hurt, it also means you have the possibility of joy .... take hope in that when you are in these dark times, don't let the negative things in life color your perceptions so much that when the positive comes along you miss it! and in the meantime, sending hugs and caring thoughts your way! ((((Ranger1930))))