you're not ready for anal and putting too much emphasis on fulfilling a fantasy. reality is you have a wonderful man there and you have a lot of sexual growth with him yet to come. stick to the love making you BOTH find rewarding and the comfort will come for the other stuff later.

don't ruin what you have for ass banging - no matter what you hear about anal orgasms they are not going to help you after you lose the vaginal ones you loved so much if the relationship goes bust because of a hang up.

if and when you are both ready

get yourself a small sized butplug and stimulate your own anus in the shower, baby oil gel is a great thing to use. this will help you teach your mind how to relax your sphincter muscle. imagine it is he inside you slowly spreading you. go extremely slow. also as you feel him or the toy push in you have to actually push to open the muscle to allow him in. make a tight fist, see the closed fingers forming a tight hole. try shoving your finger in there. ouch, no go but as you thrust your finger inward try relaxing your grip for a second then let it tighten around the tip of the finger. now do it again and as you loosen penetrate your fist deeper. again grip it tight quickly. this is the action your ass takes as he is trying to get in. anal is NEVER something that should be taken too quickly in the begining, hell i HAVE to prepare before i do it and i HAVE to be more mentally ready than physically for it to happen. the stretching burn is what scares me. i have to really want it and i have to think and tell myself to allow him in there, i have to bare down and open my ass for him.

if he is willing to take the time here have him insert a finger while he eats you out. after a few times with one finger he could try two VERY well lubed fingers. let him play in there, lick you from crack to crack...... again after time he could try three fingers or just his index finger from both hands. he can use them to spread you. you're ready when you can let him fuck you slowly with four fingers (both index and middle fingers) spreading as they slide in and out of you. again i cannot express how important lube is. my god when we were getting started we went through bottles lmao.

man i am horny now.......damn


oh well i hope something here helped.

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kinda kinky if ya think about it