Take things one step at a time. Events are seldom as bleak as we imagine them to believe. I agree with Lil -- your ex is NOT Iggy and he will have a different set of reactions/experieinces.

I'll be thinking about you -- have faith that everything will turn out OK.

((hugs))

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney