I've only seen male strippers once. It was on my honeymoon when I also saw my first female strippers. Somehow I convinced new hubby to go to both. Even though there were alot of men watching the male strippers hubby didn't want to stay long. I don't remember the music except it was loud. (The guys were ugly btw, with limp uninteresting cocks. lol)

I think if a lover was going to strip for me the music would depend on the over all mood. I could get into either slow & sensual or hard & dirty. Can't think of any music right now. Will be interesting to see what songs others come up with.