Do you think it's sexy to be someone's "first"?
 

Some people take a lot of pride in being someone's first (often referred to as earning their "white wings"). I've known some guys who treat it like a score. A girl I knew told me it turned her on to fantasize about being my first, because you never forget that person.

Any thoughts/experiences?

Being someones first is a special thing. Not just for the recently deflowered virgin but for the other person as well. The virgin chose that person to give a special gift to. I have been lucky enough to have been with 6 virgins. While they may never forget their first time, I will never forget the present they gave me.

Not so crazy about being first,but give me those sloppy seconds.heh heh heh

The guy I lost my virginity to, also lost his to me. That was special...and I belive it'll always be memorable in the other person's mind.

I don't need to be their first; I just need to be their *best.*














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Oooh, now that is a motto to live by, IAKG!

*Scribbles that into my notebook*

<-----has added that life philosophy to her signature. :D

IAKGirl~ you rule btw!


I don't wanna be somebody's first. Too much responsibility Then they'd be all ruined for anyone else;)

I want experience...virginity is overrated

Brilliant IAKG!

Any first is special. But I have to say the few times I was someone else's proper first...I've been more wrapped up in making it special for them than really been about enjoying it myself. So while it's fun, I don't think I'd have called it especially sexy.

But that's just me.

Can you imagine? All of these men running around, searching desperately for something equal to the spoiling Lil and I already gave them? :D

I was my hubby's first. I had had sex with around ten guys before I met DH. Our first time together was the first time I had ever made love. KWIM?

rotflmbfao~ a tragedy indeed:p

Interesting perspectives here... I think I've already been ruined since I tend to hope for someone like those I know here on Pixies.

As soon as I find out someone hasn't ever done something, I always want to be the first to do it with them! LOL

It's not a score card thing, just an addiction to seeing a look of pure joy when someone experiences something heavenly for the first time ever. :D