Need advice from the ladies

[rumrunner]

How would I introduce a vibrator? (needs to be small and non threatening). I talked to my S/O she says there is no need for one. Is there away I can convince her to try it at least once. :confused:

Also any suggestions on the type I should get?

[Lilith]

Get one, leave it where she'll find it. Let her decide she likes it before she tells you.

-or-

Buy a bottle of TGIFriday's ready-made mudslide mix and follow the blender directions on the bottle. Make lots. Then during oral don't ask just quietly get it out.

[lonelyarmywife]

I like Lil's idea ^^^^^^

[divot109]

Buy one...the bigger the better (especially in girth), hide it under the bed...Then, when you go down on her and get her nice and wet, slip it out from under the bed when she's not looking and....(as Emeril would say)...BAM ...slam it in...........hahahah....NO!!!!!! Don't do that!!!!! I was just kidding.

Lilith's idea is perfect....I did just that once, with my soon-to-be ex-wife. Don't worry!!! This was years ago, and in no way contributed to our divorce but it did greatly enhance our sex life while we had a sex life.

My wife was a meticulous cleaner so I bought one and hid it under the couch. A week or two later I was confronted with it, and explained that I was interested in trying it out with her!!! It worked, and she loved it. Still does, only she uses it alone now! Give it a go and good luck. Let us know the outcome!!!

[rumrunner]

Lilith thanks- I'll put those suggestions in my memory bank :wingang:

[maddy]

as to kind, i'd suggest a little bullet for starters... something small non threatening.... I personally only like the vibe for clitoral stimulation, so a little bullet works just dandy.

[rumrunner]

Thanks Maddy that egg is a good idea.