Pixies Place Forums - Osuche's BIG Announcement!

osuche

10-03-2004, 12:08 AM

As some of you may know, Thursday was my 10 year anniversary with my S/O. I was not planning on spending the day with him, because I was running a trade show booth in Las Vegas, and he is living in CA.

He flew in to Las Vegas Wednesday night and surprised me. On Thursday, we decided to celebrate our anniversary by getting married. Rather than stress over a big wedding....which was a significant reason for not getting hitched the past several years....we decided to do something simple that was *solely* for us.

We will likely have a big party this winter to celebrate with our friends and family. The ceremony in Vegas was very brief, and we took very few pictures...so I'd like to do something for posterity's sake. However, it felt really good (although a bit surreal) taking the leap. I didn't expect it to change anything, especially after 10 years, but it *does* feel different somehow. :love:

I wanted to share my good news with my Pixie family. :) I've been trying to figure out what to tell friends and family -- they have been somewhat surprised to say the least -- but I know all of you will take it well. ;)

Sharni

10-03-2004, 12:10 AM

Congratulations!!!

I'm sure you family and friends will be fine...you're happy thats all that matters

imaginewithme

10-03-2004, 12:11 AM

OH BOY...congratulations! May you two have many years of happiness together!!!

osuche

10-03-2004, 12:13 AM

Sharni and IWM....thank you both for your kind wishes.

I'm not usually an impulsive person, but it just felt right. And the feeling is growing on me. :D

rockintime

10-03-2004, 12:29 AM

osuche...my best to both you and your husband!!!!

BlondeCurlGirl

10-03-2004, 12:33 AM

How exciting and romantically spontaneous! Congratulations Osuche! Here's to many more years (of wedded!) bliss. :wine:

Lilith

10-03-2004, 12:37 AM

(((((((((((((osuche))))))))))))))))

Life is too short to put off what feels right!

Congrats! Many happy loving wishes for an eternity of sweet surprises!

one-trick pony

10-03-2004, 12:37 AM

Congratulations, Osuche. He's a lucky man to have such a charming lady.

Pegasusx62

10-03-2004, 12:39 AM

Wow...congratulations Osuche...wish you the best for all the years together to come...

PantyFanatic

10-03-2004, 12:43 AM

.....but I know all of you will take it well......

Like HELL!:madfire:

The prize of the village was snatched away from me again.:(

;) I’m so very happy for you hun. :)
I’m SURE anybody that knows even a little about you will be thrilled for you and totally ready to celebrate the bonding of an extraordinary couple.

campingboy

10-03-2004, 12:49 AM

Congradulation Osuche. I am truely happy for you. Your husband is one lucky fellow. I wish both of you a happy life together. In time, I hope your family and freinds will be able to remember that marrage is about love, your love of one another. May your lives be full of love. Hugs and Kisses.

BIBI

10-03-2004, 12:56 AM

Congratualtions Osuche, :wine:

May you both continue to have a wonderful life together as husband and wife.

Grumble

10-03-2004, 02:39 AM

Knowing all the agonising you have done Osuche, I am glad you sorted it out and did what your heart told you :)

My deepest wishes for a happy and fulfilling marriage

Hugs W

Ian

nikki1979

10-03-2004, 02:45 AM

OH WOW!!! congrats!!! thats SO great im SO happy for ya!!

~Nikki

dicksbro

10-03-2004, 04:22 AM

CONGRATULATIONS!

Wow! Is that great news, or what. Here's to a zillion years of happiness!

:cheers:

dm383

10-03-2004, 04:34 AM

Yayy!!! for you, osuche!!

Congratulations sweetie! And to your S/O as well. I hope you have many years of happiness together. :D

DM

jseal

10-03-2004, 05:01 AM

osuche,

Way cool girl! Congratulations! Well done.

John

GingerV

10-03-2004, 05:11 AM

Congratulations!! A wedding should be just what you and your spouse-to-be want, and no more. I'm so glad the two of you got it, and I'm intrigued to hear that it "does feel different." Don't let your families phase you, I'm sure they're happy for you under the shock.

So....what we want to know is when the honeymoon happens ;).

G

musicman

10-03-2004, 06:42 AM

CONGRATS!

All the best for a long & Happy life together..... :wine:

TinTennessee

10-03-2004, 06:49 AM

:) Congratulations :)

BigBear57

10-03-2004, 07:35 AM

Awwwwww Hon, what a great surprise. I wish you both the very best. Of course, he's got the best. Lucky guy! May love, laughter and happiness fill your days, be happy Darlin'.

Navarre

10-03-2004, 07:47 AM

Congratulations!!!!!!

Lilith

10-03-2004, 08:52 AM

Please tell me Elvis was officiating....:D

maddy

10-03-2004, 08:53 AM

Congratulations, I hope for many years of exploration, happiness, and comfort for you and your husband.

Vurginne

10-03-2004, 09:16 AM

Felicitation, Congratulations and all that fun stuff. I hope you have a long and happy marriage Osuche! Cheers :wine: !

Coaster

10-03-2004, 09:37 AM

CONGRATULATIONS!

I'm smiling so big now realizing the REAL reason you were moaning Friday about being "so tired"! :D

Best of luck to you hun....... I'm glad someone snagged o suche a good woman and will hopefully slow you down! :)

I think you should show him your old stomping grounds up here on the coast! Be well ! :wine: :hug:

Pita

10-03-2004, 09:37 AM

Congratulations and many wonderful happy years together. :wine:

osuche

10-03-2004, 10:20 AM

You all are so wonderful. Thank you for your kind words and for your well wishes. I just knew my Pixie family would take it well....except for PF of course. :p

I've been doing a lot of thinking recently, and come to a few conclusions. I'm going to try and put my personal happiness first, and trying to live without regrets. I've been going through a spell of bad health again recently, and I decided that there was no time like the present to do the things I've dreamed of. Life is *much* too short, and happiness is much too fleeting, to do anything else.

So...now on to the hard parts. Finishing school, moving to CA, and starting a new life with my husband. :wine:

Lilith

10-03-2004, 10:28 AM

You all are so wonderful. Thank you for your kind words and for your well wishes. I just knew my Pixie family would take it well....except for PF of course. :p

I've been doing a lot of thinking recently, and come to a few conclusions. I'm going to try and put my personal happiness first, and trying to live without regrets. I've been going through a spell of bad health again recently, and I decided that there was no time like the present to do the things I've dreamed of. Life is *much* too short, and happiness is much to fleeting, to do anything else.

So...now on to the hard parts. Finishing school, moving to CA, and starting a new life with my husband. :wine:
Hard, but most likely resulting in a type of personal satisfaction like no other. BTW, I have faith in you ;)

osuche

10-03-2004, 10:34 AM

The prize of the village was snatched away from me again.:(

Sweetie, I'm not gone yet. You still have hope. So hop in that car and get down here! :D

osuche

10-03-2004, 10:35 AM

I am truely happy for you. Your husband is one lucky fellow. I wish both of you a happy life together.

Thank you my dear. You well wishes mean a lot to me!

osuche

10-03-2004, 10:36 AM

Knowing all the agonising you have done Osuche, I am glad you sorted it out and did what your heart told you :)

Thank you Ian. :D I so rarely listen to my heart I think I had to take 10 years to recognize its voice.

Psst...now it's your turn. ;)

osuche

10-03-2004, 10:37 AM

Yayy!!! for you, osuche!!

I am flattered to get one of DM's infrequent posts! Thank you sweetie, and I wish you all the happiness the world can give as well.

osuche

10-03-2004, 10:38 AM

Way cool girl! Congratulations! Well done.

OK...so you're nominated to go and convince my S/O's grandmother that this was "well done." :p

osuche

10-03-2004, 10:41 AM

Congratulations!! A wedding should be just what you and your spouse-to-be want, and no more. I'm so glad the two of you got it, and I'm intrigued to hear that it "does feel different." G

Ginger, we haven't really gotten the opportunity to explore how it feels different together....but I think the most important thing is that I now feel like I have a reason to work on being the person I *should* be for my husband. And he told me he felt the same thing ~~ he has been eating better, and I went to the gym. And I've also tried to do and say the things that will set us up for a life of happiness. Such as going back to school. :D

Of course, there are other differences as well, but this is the biggest one.

osuche

10-03-2004, 10:42 AM

CONGRATS!

All the best for a long & Happy life together..... :wine:

So...you gonna buy me a drink? ;)

osuche

10-03-2004, 10:43 AM

Awwwwww Hon, what a great surprise. I wish you both the very best. Of course, he's got the best. Lucky guy! May love, laughter and happiness fill your days, be happy Darlin'.

Thank you so much BigBear. I wishI could hug you right now. :D

osuche

10-03-2004, 10:45 AM

Please tell me Elvis was officiating....:D

We talked about it...but he really wanted something a bit more traditional. So we went to the Little White Wedding Chapel and were married by a real minister. ;) But inside I was imagining this 6'5" tall black guy dressed as Elvis.

Cheyanne

10-03-2004, 11:28 AM

Congratulations osuche!

It is always nice to have family approve or accept important decisions that we make in our lives, but one thing that you have to keep in mind - they aren't living your life for you...you and only you are responsible for your own happiness! I am glad that you and your S/O decided to "take the plunge" and follow your hearts and do what feels right for both of you.

/me raises champagne glass in toast to continued happiness and understanding for you both!

cowgirltease

10-03-2004, 11:48 AM

Congratulations osuche! I wish you all the happiness in the world and may you both grow old together in good health. :)

jseal

10-03-2004, 11:52 AM

OK...so you're nominated to go and convince my S/O's grandmother that this was "well done." :p

osuche,

Sure, no problemo. All we must do is figure out how to book the trip as a business expense. :D

Neige

10-03-2004, 12:08 PM

Congratulations!!!

sodaklostsoul

10-03-2004, 12:11 PM

Congrats osuche to you and the hubby!!!!!!!! May your lives be full of happiness and good blessings.

jennaflower

10-03-2004, 12:58 PM

osuche...

As I said last nite... you are someone who I deeply believe deserves unlimited happiness... it is my hope for you that within this marriage you will obtain an every expanding happiness... may your days be filled with love and happiness... and your nights be filled with HOT SEX!!! I am so very happy for you and wish you both the best of everything...

Scarecrow

10-03-2004, 02:46 PM

CONGRATULATIONS

May you both have many more happy years together :wine:

denny

10-03-2004, 03:19 PM

Congratulations, lady. I hope the different it feels is a very, very good different, as I am sure it is. You did surprise though, had NO clue. Enjoy the glow, you sound great!

musicman

10-03-2004, 04:10 PM

So...you gonna buy me a drink? ;)

like you had to ask..... ;)

campingboy

10-03-2004, 04:34 PM

Well my original suggestion was a gardening BBQ party. Lilith then wanted ditch mud wresling. Now we can add a wedding party.

Raises a dram of scotch up and toasts the new couple.

osuche

10-03-2004, 05:15 PM

Congratulations, lady. I hope the different it feels is a very, very good different, as I am sure it is. You did surprise though, had NO clue. Enjoy the glow, you sound great!

Yes, it's been a while since I've been this happy. Of course, I've been contemplating ditching work and flying to SF....but other than that. :D I am happy.

And you sound happy too, whihc I am so thrilled to hear! :wine:

osuche

10-03-2004, 05:16 PM

Well my original suggestion was a gardening BBQ party. Lilith then wanted ditch mud wresling. Now we can add a wedding party.

Raises a dram of scotch up and toasts the new couple.

Y'all are invited...assuming you're willing to come to Columbus in December for our wedding celebration! :D Let me knwow here I can mail invitations.

osuche

10-03-2004, 05:16 PM

kathy1

10-03-2004, 06:36 PM

Congratulations to you both. I do wish you a long marriage filled with love, happiness, joy and contentement. May all your days be filled with smiles and may your arms always be full of him.

flutelady

10-03-2004, 06:53 PM

Congratulations sweetpea, I'm so happy for you both! I hope you'll have a wonderful life together. I hope you'll always ALWAYS keep the lines of communication open with him. That's one of the best lessons I've ever learned.

I wanna see a pic of the two of you!

wyndhy

10-03-2004, 08:24 PM

very cool! congratulations! it always seems as though the best things in life happen when we can shake things up a bit. :)

LixyChick

10-04-2004, 04:25 AM

Oh wow! How romantic! Congratulations and best wishes for a long and happy future together!

((((((Osuche))))))

Belial

10-04-2004, 05:19 AM

*big enourmous hugs* :hug:

Congratulations and I hope this is the start of something happy :)

Grumble

10-04-2004, 06:42 AM

been thinking of you two a lot today Osuche. Being lucky enough to have met you both I am really overjoyed and it has made my whole week already.

:D :D :D

Sugarsprinkles

10-04-2004, 03:13 PM

CONGRATULATIONS OSUCHE!!!!!

Aqua

10-04-2004, 03:44 PM

Cuts in for a dance with the blushing bride...

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Osuche, here's to many years of health, happiness, and horniness!! :wine:

That you two did what felt right for you is the important thing... the family will learn to deal with it. (((Hugs))) <~~~~~You can collect those the next time you are in Seattle. :)

cbass1976

10-04-2004, 04:05 PM

CONGRATS :wave:

Summer

10-04-2004, 04:38 PM

Congratulations!!!

WildIrish

10-04-2004, 04:47 PM

I'm happy for you both. You did this out of love. It was brave, wreckless and impulsive. Carpe Diem! Good job you romantics!

osuche

10-05-2004, 06:03 AM

Thank you to all for your support. I called the rest of the extended family yesterday and let them know...and I am still alive!!! ;)

It was impulsive -- but it felt right. And I'm still waiting for the romance part, but that will happen soon I bet. ;)

And Aqua...I'll plan on collecting on thos hugs soon! :D

skyler_m

10-05-2004, 09:19 AM

Osuche - I am completely ecstatic for you. I know you've been wanting some definite sign for a while. I'm glad you got it. I can have nothing but wonderful wishes for you.

He's a damned lucky bastard. Make sure he doesn't forget! :D