The F*** Buddy...

[BlondeCurlGirl]

Just curious to see how many of you out there have an "old standby" to hook up with when your sex lives aren't as active and adventurous as you may like.

If you are currently in a solid relationship but had a fuck buddy in the past...why did things end??

I for one have been very tempted to call an "old friend" on numerous occasions, but getting together would truly be an out of the way adventure, since he's up in Lambeau Land for the summer. I'd have to wait until he came back to school in the fall to make it truly worth my while. ;)

[dadaist]

Don't have a 'buddy' or any kind of steady partner. Any takers? :p

Don't REALLY want to talk about past breakups - there are a couple of ex's I still talk to, one's in Indiana one's in Texas (and moving back to Indiana). And we're just friends and that's cool.

[Vicious Tease]

I had one long ago. We were both just getting out of bad relationships at the time and agreed to keep things purely physical. T'was the best sex of my life ... thus far. :lust:

Damn, I need to call him!

[Loulabelle]

I had one once......he started off as a 'cyber fuck buddy' (online fun, although we were both keen on other, unattainable people) then for a short while he became a real life fuck buddy, and that was great........now I'm in love with him and it's even better. :p

[FussyPucker]

YAY for me :D
*happy dances all the way to lou's house*
(_|_)(_\_)(_|_)(_/_)(_|_) ooooooooooooooooooooo YEAH !

I had a fuck buddy a couple of years ago we had a great time went out had a few drinks and a good laugh then we'd pop back to her place for naughties....we're still friends although we've not seen each other for a long time we still text and she got a computer recently so we might chat on there some time. She's actually got herself attached to a guy and is getting married and of course I'm well and truly attached to the yummy loulabelle....

ahhhh life, it's GREAT ! :D:D:D

[IAKaraokeGirl]

It's a very...odd...feeling, isn't it, BCG, to know you have someone to call if you need to?

In my case, it was simply a matter of timing between us--who wanted what, when. For some reason, even when we agreed we were *not* going to see each other, any time we were alone together ended up with us sans clothes. :D I can't explain it, but I think it's a combo of the memories of the most incredible, passionate sex I'd ever had, plus the friendship we have shared for many, many years, plus other underlying feelings--or maybe it was simply that this person always made me feel good about myself: wanted, desired, appreciated. Everyone needs to feel that way now and then. ;)

[skipthisone]

I had one long ago, she would even come over mornings after she knew someone else had been there and come jump in my bed and we would talk about it and then sleep the day away...damn i miss her...

[jennaflower]

Skip... can I be your new Fuckbuddy? PLEASE.......... ;)

[skipthisone]

Applications should be returned to the clerk in triplicate

[Steph]

I've had some . . . they're great if you don't want a relationship :) Still friends with them, too!

[quisath]

Yep..................what Steph said. (Friends with some though........not all)

[Devillishgirl]

I had a very good friend who had lots of extra benefits. That ended when he started dating a good friend of mine but there were no bad feelings.

Now my SO and I have another couple with benefits....just starting out and working through the little bumps but it's going well :D

[Lilith]

I have never had a fuck buddy...guess I am gonna have to find one

[IAKaraokeGirl]

Lilith, BCG obviously didn't need that chapter in the textbook. Maybe she'll let you study it. ;)

[txgrneyes]

Yes, I have made it a point to have a part-timer. Someone always there to work out with. At this point that is all I have. But yes this is a must.

[BigBear57]

I have had in the past "old reliables" who chose to remain friends and still gave passionately. Alas that was a long time ago and now all I have is a right one and a left one and they're here all day every day but they lack so much in the ability to make small talk after.

[LixyChick]

Yes......years ago. I would go to his house at any hour I got the urge and he would open his door and his arms wide! He couldn't come to my place cause at the time I lived with my mother still. Oh....the memories!

*Special Note* I talk to ya after your through there Bear! :D *

[Glyndwr]

Originally posted by Lilith
I have never had a fuck buddy...guess I am gonna have to find one

~Filling in the form in triplicate~

[BigBear57]

Oh damn Lixxy, that's enough to start me over... Mmmmmmmm

[Sweet Thing]

I had one in my youth. We had gone to school together but nothing had ever happened then. About a year after we graduated, we ran into each other at the mall one night, got to talking and eventually ended up in bed. Neither of us had planned on it or expected it...it just hapened. For several years after that, anytime one of us was lonely or without an SO, we would get together for some wonderful sex. It was great because we both knew that we were both clean, safe and discreet and there were absolutly no strings attached. Our liasons ended when I got engaged and was no longer in need of my fuck buddy. It turns out that he got married shortly after I did so it would have ended anyway. I see him every now and again because he manages a store that I frequent.

[rtctfield]

About every three months, I have to travel to the Chicago area for business. The lobby receptionist in the office building I visit has become my four-a-year buddy. We've probably gotten busy twenty or more times, and I swear I don't ever recall hearing her last name! Mind-blowing sex, though. Quite the buddy.

[osuche]

I find the fuck buddy is good for emotional support as well as mind-blowing sex. I have two of them... The first I lost my virginity to when I was 13 (and we're still like rabbits 13 years later). The other one is a co-worker who lives in Atlanta and we get together about 4 times per year.

I'm close with both and they provide emotional support as well as ...support of a more physical kind.

I would highly recommend you find one...but seek someone who is giving, not jealous, and good in bed. It makes sense to plan for the long haul. :-)

[dadaist]

I'm still wondering where I can go to get one signed up ;)

[osuche]

Ever meet someone and you just "click"??? That's the perfect fuck buddy. Just don't set their expectations on life-long relationships..

[rabbit]

Been a loooong time since I had a fuckbuddy. Just been me and Mrs R for the past 15 years.

Those days were sure fun, though!


:D


rabbit

[osuche]

Variation on the fuckbuddy...

What about continuing this type of relationship while having a b/f or husband (or wife, g/f)? How did it work out?

[LixyChick]

Hmmmmmm! Hubby says I can't date anymore osuche! WTF is that all about? LOL!

To answer that one though....No.....not yet! I'm trying to get him to meet me though! I'lll keep ya posted!

;)

OMG! What did I just say?

[osuche]

Doesn't sound like you properly instructed him, Lixy...keep workin' on him and good luck!

[Mercury_Maniac]

i have absolutely nobody,

no one in the whole wide world

probably never will

[osuche]

MM - Cheer up! Look at Pixies as a great opportunity to become educated in the ways of sex so that you're ready to knock her socks off when you finally do find the right gal.

Negativity is often a self-fulfilling prophesy. Also, sex is a BIG DEAL and can be emotionally stressful. You may be better off without....

Sometimes I think so myself...and wish I had waited.

If you want to talk about it or get advice, IM me or send an e-mail. Be happy to be a sympathetic ear.

[rabbit]

Originally posted by osuche
Variation on the fuckbuddy...

What about continuing this type of relationship while having a b/f or husband (or wife, g/f)? How did it work out?

Interesting question...I will admit to have actually thought about it in the past. I guess I am either too chicken to do it or just haven't met anyone yet that I would be comfortable enough with.



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[osuche]

You have to find the right kid of person...who is most likely in your same situation.

[dadaist]

Having a "buddy" while dating someone else can be next to impossible if they BOTH want to occupy a lot of your time.

[osuche]

I'm the kind of gal who likes a challenge...

No, seriously...It only works when both people know and you are totally upfront. Mismatched expectations don't work. Besides, I don't enjoy lying to people.

[Nubian]

Strange you should ask. I've eever had one but always wondered (and fantasized) what that would be like. My sexual experiences have always been in committed relationships.

[Wildeye]

Fuck buddy

Did once, but ultimately we both fell half in-love and half-out and it kinda became using each other, but wanting more. Sometimes the sex was great and other times average.

I liked her more as a friend, but she was cute, very good tits and so tight. She actually tore my foreskin!

Wildeye feeling weird

[Snake1451]

Yeah... her name is Rosie Palms.

.... It's sad.

~Snake~

[Ernest]

I could go for a good fuck buddy. I thought I was going to get one but got denied, that sucked.

[Prophet Reality]

Good question. I have had a few friends that we fooled around once or twice and that was it, but nothing that lasted. I would love to have a Fuck Buddy right now though. Just someone for the emotional and phsyical, but nothing long term. Oh yeah, Lilith, if you decide you want one, let me know and I will get my application filled out in triplicate for you!

[Ananke]

Nope dont have one. Dont need one :)

[Nubian]

Originally posted by Ananke
Nope dont have one. Dont need one :)

O.K. I couldn't resist:D :D Is that because you have a SO who satisfies your every desire? Or because of that awe inspiring object depicted in your avatar? If the latter, I would send in my application, but I fear I could not compete.;) :p

[mindboxer505]

**volunteers to be any of the pixie ladies' fuckbuddy****
:P :P :P :P

[osuche]

Careful...that could be a full-time job Mindboxer

[Aqua]

Had a fuck buddy once.. ok twice... lol

One was a pregnant girl who was gorgeous and just out of a relationship. I was just out of a relationship too, so we both agreed... Fuck Buddy powers activate! Mmmmmm, wild freaky deaky pregnant circus sex. :D

Another was a gal that lived nearby. We just kinda started talking one day, and then one day when had been friends for awhile and discussed all kinds of sexy sunjects we were talking on the phone when I had just gotten out of the shower. She walked to my front door talking to me the whole way on her phone and were fuck buddies for months.

I am currently filling out a whole gob of forms to become Lilith's fuck buddy... I figure it's like 'Enter as often as you like', so I am. :p LOL

[skipthisone]

damn beauracrat nonsense

[rabbit]

<---grabs forms to apply for the Lilith fuckbuddy position...wonder if I'll qualify?


:D


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[denny]

I have a couple of old friends who qualify but are 2900 miles away!