Okay...let's be honest if we are going to answer.....

[blueeyedjeff]

Can you count and name all the past lovers you have had and let's keep this to actual fucking? Drunken blowjobs and backyard fingering do not count.

Guys, be honest...no bragging..we are already on a sex site
Ladies, be honest also..I know the tendency is for women to understate this number and men to overstate.

ANswer with a yes/no and a number

I offer in the 24 years since I lost my cherry that I have been with 26 women and I am pretty sure of all their names, or at least where we met and what we did.

[dicksbro]

Yep. One ... my wife. (Sorry if you were hoping for 146,823 :))

[Murphy]

yup, and I can still picture each and every one of the six

[kleclere]

Yes, only had 2.

[Scarecrow]

No I can't remember them all.

[Lilith]

yes 5~ so far;)

[dadaist]

8 and no I don't remember every name. All but one in fact. It was a one night stand (met online in fact! :P ) and yes we were sober.

[Loulabelle]

5 for me too! And OF COURSE I can name them all!

And just for the record: only been kissed by nine (all of whom I can also name :p)

[FussyPucker]

9 and yes I know every name !.........maybe not every surname though....... I'm a bad ickle boy

[blkcat]

Yes just two:mad:

[LixyChick]

Geez Jeff! I sorta resent the implication that I might lie to make myself look less sluttier! Maybe I might be a braggart and like being perceived as slutty! LOL!

I've been taught, it's not what you say but how you say it.....and you'll catch more flies with honey than you will vinegar.......

But why do I need lots of flies? Oh hell......

Yes (7)...wait....

No.....oh damn...wait.....

Do I have to know a last name? And, if I didn't know his name but called out, "Oh Gawd" quite a bit.....does that count?

[KingMinotaur]

I kinda have to agree with Lixy here ; I can't be totally sure..but at a guess, I'd have to say .. somewhere between 10 and 20.. lol so many short-term relationships that were founded on one of the things I do best ::fly::

[Glyndwr]

Hmmmm no I can't remember them all but I think it's between 12 & 15. Some younger than me, some older, all when I was gaining an education in life. Everyone thoroughly enjoyable and totally unique.

[blueeyedjeff]

It seems everyone is being pretty straight forward...makes it worthwhile to have started this thread....and to clarify..last names nnot needed to protect the guilty pleasures......
This was just curiosity on my part.....Probably 'cuz WAY BACK when I was a teenager, a girlfriend at the time admitted to about 25-30..she was not sure, she had a tendency to get drunk and fuck anything that walked...and this in the year after she lost her virginity at 14!!! Scary

[blueeyedjeff]

AND most of my partners have been older than me,

I LOVE OLDER WOMEN....less game playing and you know what you want...tend to not be bimbos...a healthy brain that can talk about more than MTV is an incredible turn-on.....

[Sharni]

Lets see....

Tim
Brian
Leslie
Andrew
Steve
Shane
Dean
Mark
Darren
Neil
Peter
Gary

All except 2 of them were before i met Bilbo...and i met him at 17 :o :eek:

[Sugarsprinkles]

Did a bit of memory searching and came up with a grand total of 12. Ten of the twelve were from the age of 16 to 22 when I met my husband. One of them is my husband. And he was the only one for 30 yrs., until last year. :eek: ;) :p

[SwtCheeks]

Let's see. Higher than 10, lower than 25. Yeah that's about right.*winks*

[Blaze]

Just one, my Wes.

[Vicious Tease]

Yes ... first, middle and last names in fact. (I have sort of a fetish for middle names)

and the total is ...

*drum roll please*

4 and if all goes well, I'll be keeping number four indefinitely :D

[blueeyedjeff]

OKAY, people, I feel sluttish...but let us put this in perspective...
My hormones hit at the end of the seventies and beginning of the eighties... and that was the heyday of Ft. Lauderdale spring break..imagine riding your bicycle into the middle of 125,000 co-eds..AHH (but I digress)

[hitachi]

only 3 and yes I know all the names

[dm383]

I have slept with as many women as I am old in years.....and I've posted that elsewhere!!!

(And, no, I don't remember all their names! :()

Got to say though... barring ill-luck, #?? is my "keeper"!! :D
{Guess who THAT is?!?!?!:))

DM

[Scarlett]

3 including my husband and yes, I know their names...first and last :)

[m45]

Had to stop and think and count, and yes remember their names.
Came up with 13, 4 were one night stands and out of the 13 came 2 wives..

[Casperr]

Yes, Zero!

:)

CasperTG

[Cheyanne]

5
Yes I remember the names
1 of the 5 is my husband.

[Steph]

Eek, I've had about 30 and I remember their names . . . wait now, there was one who's face I can picture . . . I lived in a resort town for a few years in my late teens. Partying abounded. I've reformed and only been with five guys in my 20s.

[babybunny]

1 and only 1 and prob only be 1....

[huntersgirl]

Yes I can remember names and the #, but the question for me would be how many times...OMG! my poor brain can't handle that kind of computation...lol.

[Oldfart]

As I said before in another thread, I lost count at 30.

In the days before AIDS and such, when the pill was a gift

from heaven and most of the girls were angels, sex was casual

and fun. Names or faces, just a delicious blur.

[gekkogecko]

No, I truly have lost count, and frankly, there are some names I'd rather forget.

[Steph]

Phew! I'm glad there are some 30-ish people out there!

[rabbit]

The number for me is 30. I remember every encounter and location... MOST of the first names, few of the last. A few I deeply regretted, the rest were simply a blast! Almost all of it was during my really promiscuous years in college and the two years thereafter, before meeting Mrs. R.

Needless to say, I went and had myself tested and, fortunately for me, I am still clean.

[Wicked Wanda]

No. Probably not even for the last year.
I knew their names at the time (mostly) but I don't keep a diary, and I have more important things to contemplate.
So, your point is what?

Sexually,

WW

[Irish]

Yes.How many?A gentleman never tells.I don't either! Irish
P.S.Too many lives have been ruined by people bragging or lying!
I know that no names are asked,but I don't break my code!I'll just
say more than one.

[blueeyedjeff]

Wicked...
I was just curious...I am always hearing and reading about studies that report averages and thought I would do my own study....

So far, even though we are on an adults only sex site, all the feedback corelates with the reports. I actually thought that due to our nature, we would have numbers much higher than the norm... I believe the last sets were about 5 partners for women and possibly 10-12 for men..

[darogle]

I can count them all...8. But not having much luck on naming them all....

[Mercury_Maniac]

none, and that sux

[Cobalt]

Yes, 5, last one is my wife

[pepsigirl]

yes, there were 24 men.

[BlueSwede]

At least 18 but less than 25. I don't remember all of the names, and I never have used drugs or been a drinker. However, we're talking 39 years since I lost my virginity, and during 22 of those years, I had only one partner.

[Bopper]

Yep, one and if I didn't remember her name, I would have hell to pay...;)

[garman]

Sorry to say - No, I don't remember all their names. I came up with 10, 6 whom I can remember as we also dated. I remember the other 4 as Jugs (she had awesome tits), Cupcake (she has tini little titties), Chocolate (my one and only one night stand with a black girl), and the freak (she liked to be spanked). There may have been one or two more that fell into the drunken pickup category. Those were different times though. STD's were not fatal in the 70's and 80's.

[Nice Guy]

Only 4 and yes I remember every name and face.

[BamaKyttn]

yes, 8..... 7 men 1 woman, I remember where we met, and the first time we had sex for each........ damn and all of those were before I turned 19!

[seriousfun]

OK, not bragging...

I did some writing about my life a few years back, putting some incidents into fictional settings. One story got me thinking about this...hobby...of mine.

The count was nearly 60 women. I could come up with names of a majority of them, or at least a good guess. I was a guitar player then, and it wasn't hard to have access to lots o' fun!

[Wildeye]

Wow!!

What thread. Being honest 9 Women, 1 man.

Of them all only wife and one very long time ago girlfriend were really life-changing, ground shaking loving sex and some. the others were just lust, some emotions but not "that feeling", when you know.

Wildeye

Therapy - whats that I type!!

[ShadowRaven]

Yes 2 so far.....number 3 hopefully in a couple of weeks ;) lol :sex: :D :devil:

[airhog]

Just 5 and I dont remember all of their names :D Does that mean they weren any good?

[rtctfield]

How's this for luck...

I've been with six women, but four (yes, four!) had the same name!

[faerysflower]

hmm lets see

Conan(Yes, I know what was I thinking?)
Aaron
Alex
Casey
Mr X (Don't remember his name.)
David
Laura
6 girls in a dorm hallway... Can anyone say daisy chain?Mmmmm fun!!!
Rick
Corey (girl)
Julie... mmmmm she had legs up to her ears.... I'm 5 5 and when we stood side by side her hip was literally level with my armpit.... She was 6 2...
Jeff
Aaron again (Same one)
Todd
Mike
Hmmm I can see his face...... Grrrr can't remember...
Adam


Hmm that wasn't too bad.... 10 guys, 3 girls (plus the daisy chain) And I only forgot 2 names....


If you add the drunken blowjobs, or any blow jobs... gees that would be problematic (I'm a verrrrrry oral girl.) And if you factor in all the behind the house/backseat exploring fingers, I'd really be in Dutch.

[osuche]

8 men, 1 woman. I remember all their names.

Every one (but one) I speak to on at least a yearly basis. The one ended amicably, but he became a Lutheran minister and married and wanted to "forget" about our time together.

[Little_Miss]

3,

Ian (first time, his too, didnt realise warming up was necessary:o )

Ben (my 2nd ever, and no better than the first)

John (no comment incase he reads this ):p

[leftonthird]

vaginal 5, anal 1 total of 6. yep, I remember all of the names.

[pepsigirl]

mine is 20 something, and yes i remember all of them.

[musicman]

yep.....4 including my wife....

know all names, and countries of origin... LOL

[Cobalt]

Yes 5

[douginfla]

geeee, I lost count...really!

[blackhawk]

Good God...I wish I'd never read this post. Too hard to remember all the names, and there are a lot more than I'd remembered.

38 women...and I couldn't even begin counting the anonymous/semi-anonymous blowjobs over the last 17 years.

Oh, and 2 men. Had to try it out, you know ;-P

XO

J

[shooter]

well when i counted right before i got married, it was like 42 or 43, actually i'm not lying and quite disgusted with the number but its the truth. I was a young naive attractive white guy coming from an inner city school going to a major university where I was never really used to so many attractive women in large classes of about 200 or more. I would get sometime anonymous notes at my dorm door, anonymouse phone calls or simply meet loose women at frat parties....... I got married and of course all that stopped, but i think back and regret it all..............

[lakritze]

A gentleman never tells.

[dreamgurl]

0 and i hope to stay that way till i meet the one for me ( or maybe two ;))

[BigDanRTW]

0, but im kinda hoping dreamgurl would be #1 ;)

[Doomsday]

THe answer is no because I am a version... I fingered my ExGF... that was all and yes I know her name

Stephanie

[Doomsday]

AHH GOD TYPOS!

The*
Virgin*

[dreamgurl]

awww bigdan i would take u up on that offer anyday

[Sweet Thing]

Dennis, Todd, Ed, Clint, Robert, Randy, Tom...Ummmm...it seems like there should be more but I am drawing a blank at the moment...Now, if I counted all the guys that I had a chance to have sex with, but turned down...now that would be a long list!

[lilsquirt]

5 guys and that includes my husband, was too shy to ever try with a girl.

Oh and yes, i remember all their names, first and last and their aptitude. My husband was the best, i guess that's why i chose him, cuz he instinctively knew how to make me soar.

[JONTAR]

9.. and no, I dont remember 2 of them. 7 were before I turned 20 and I have been in two long term monogomous relationships with one in between... (the one I shouldn't have let get away! :( )

[MJ6Music]

Yes, 2

[storyteller]

well I for one don't bother lying in chat, being 51 I've been around for quite a while and no there's no way I could remember all of the ladies I've made love too, there are just far too many to count but so far this year alone so far, thanks to the internet chat rooms I've made love to 15 lovely ladies.you can put that in the believe it or not file if you wish, but I know the truth lol

[pieeater]

yes, and strange as it may sound only one.We were teenagers when we met and have been married for nearly 20 years.

[denny]

No I can't remember the number or names. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

I'd love to be dreamgurl's second.

[Mercury_Maniac]

none.......isn't that sad

[Michael Smith]

Just one for me - and I'd die a very happy man if it stays that way for the rest of my life.

[cowgirltease]

Nope sorry, I lost count a looooooong time ago.:D

[tintorshade]

only 1

[imaginewithme]

yes just one

[kcsplit]

12 I believe. Which was low for being a lifeguard, judging from my peers of the day. This could have been one summer for some of them.

Becky - 1st time and ridiculously quick
Deborah - hot 26 yo (when I was 16) complete sex goddess
Caitlin - Freshman year of college, her first time.
Christie - she used to rock her hips up high and pull me deep inside her
Meilani - part hawaiian and cocoa skin
Michelle - 1st long term girlfriend
Stephanie - 1 drunken night
Chris - short fling on the futon in my parents house
Lisa - OMG, hot blonde with a CFM look in her eyes. I regret it was just once.
AJ - my first programming chick - just one time
Julie - wow, college basketball player, 6'2" met and 5 hours later we had sex on the beach I worked at. 2 week interlude, but it was awesome.

...and now my wife for the past 10 years

[professor3699]

Michele
Cindy
Kirsten
Valerie
Carol
My (Hot!) Wife of 17 years

[moozilla_78]

3 and I can name them all.

[rzande1]

Just one here.

[Crown Of Ivy]

Just one and I plan on keeping it that way....whether I marry him or not.

[looloo]

Well, yes I am ashamed to admit but there has been 16 or 17 not sure if one counts

[fredchabotnick]

Only been three for me. And of course I know their names.

[OziJuggalo]

6 and yes can name them all as i have only been sexualy active in the last 5 years im now 30 im a late starter :D :D

[mr_tim_sr]

32 ladys married 3 of them had a lot of fun doing it too

[lizzardbits]

well in six months i will have been sexually active for half of my life, averaging 1 lover every 6 months. 3 of my lovers have been women. some have been one night stands, and a feww have been long term relationships. there have been a few that i never did get their real names, thank god that i am disease free!

if i could go back in time, would i have had the one-night stands......prolly nope, but i still would have slept with my long term relationships.

[lazaruslong]

OK, even as ugly as I am, I have to admit I lost count at about 60. I remember most of their names and faces.

But I must admit the fact that I used to run a swingers club MIGHT have something to do with it

[starch]

5 for me!!!
I remember first AND last names

[Ranger1930]

I think the borderline figure in this whole forum has been between 4 and 7.. I find that rather hard to believe. Seeing as most of you are far older than I.. Being only 20.. And I have those numbers doubled.. Even tripled in some cases.. Now just call me a Manwhore.. and be done with it.. Or pull ur tongues outta your asses and give some real figures.. Believe me.. Those drunken nights when you can't remember if you fucked him.. or her.. and then him and her again.. r this other person.. well those count. Yea so start digg'n deep =P

[Loulabelle]

Dig, dig, dig, dig, dig, dig, dig........nope it's still only 5 for me.

4 of them were long term relationships, and one of them was a fuckbuddy.

I've never fucked someone just because I was drunk. In fact I've never been so drunk that I've suffered memory loss of any kind. It's just dangerous and stupid, for women (and men) to behave like that.

If I'm too drunk to remember it in the morning, I may also be too drunk to get him to wear a condom. And if I'm randomly sleeping with lots of men everytime I'm drunk, then there's a good chance I'll end up with a disease that will be painful at best, or cause infertility and even death at worst. I like a drink (and a fuck) as much as the next man, but not enough to put myself at the risk of coming to physical harm. Just common sense.

Oh and by the way, sex with a woman who is so drunk she's likely not to remember in the morning is rape. That's a legal fact.

[treeview]

It took a little while to remember all of their names, but I did :)

Comes to 16 and I'll be 52 in a couple of weeks.

[Steph]

Eek, I've had about 30 and I remember their names . . . wait now, there was one who's face I can picture . . . I lived in a resort town for a few years in my late teens. Partying abounded. I've reformed and only been with five guys in my 20s.

And it's gone up to the 40s now. I've had several lovers in my 30s.

[Nuelaan]

27 years old and my number is now stopped at 5, the fith being my wife. I can name them all.

[Oldfart]

People, even Pixies, live different lives, with different morals and desires.

Some don't look a gift horse in the mouth, and some do.

The nature of this Forum doesn't stereotype our members, and bullshit doesn't rank as a virtue here.

If someone says three or three hundred, accept and thank the member for sharing.

[Myst]

For me, the count is quite easy. Two: one was a long-term relationship in high school and the other is my husband. So of course, I remember names, birthdates, birth places, etc. ;)

To me, it's not the number that's important, it's the quality of the sex. My first...well, the quality wasn't there, but as I was his first too...I guess it's understandable. My husband....DEFINITE quality there, even though I was his first, as well!!! :D

[Coaster]

Yes, I remember their names....... and more!

And yes, I am experienced!

[osuche]

Yes, I remember their names....... and more!

And yes, I am experienced!

Tease... :p

[marvel]

You guys must be kidding, I thought most of you pixies were hoes, sluts, and sluts and hoes. But you are not, some of you are: the 7-10 by 17 types and the 8 or ten by 20 types. A bunch of you are somewhere in the area of five (give or take) and I think that is awesome. I would like to know what the rest of the pixies numbers are, the one that post and have a lot ocomments.

I have never lied about my number, which is 4 nor have I told anyone save for my wives.
were one night stands and two I married.

[Loulabelle]

I'm sorry Marvel, I'm struggling to follow some of what you're saying here. However, I'm surprised that you'd assume most of us are 'sluts and hoes' since the majority of the people on this site are married or in long term partnerships. I think it's clear when seeing our posts, even the picture ones, that we're discearning 'decent' people with self respect and moral standards.

Personally, I can't think of anything better than being fucked from here to eternity......by my husband. As I've said a million times here at Pixies, just because a person likes sex, does not mean they are promiscuous.

[Lilith]

You guys must be kidding, I thought most of you pixies were hoes, sluts, and sluts and hoes. But you are not, some of you are: the 7-10 by 17 types and the 8 or ten by 20 types. A bunch of you are somewhere in the area of five (give or take) and I think that is awesome. I would like to know what the rest of the pixies numbers are, the one that post and have a lot ocomments.

I have never lied about my number, which is 4 nor have I told anyone save for my wives.
were one night stands and two I married.

So is 5 the dividing line between typical and "hoe"? What is the numerical dividing line between "hoe" and slut? I need a goal.

[Oldfart]

Hoe? Hoe? Is the male equivalent a rake? (Sorry.)

If Marvel built up this bizarre image of Pixies as uber-sexual identities, I just feel slightly sorry

that he could so drastically underestimate us.

[marvel]

I am sorry for implying that you all are promiscuous. I'm not saying that you all are I did think that most people are(in our U.S. society),and I am quite sure that you all can think that I am to with some of my requests and comments that I make here about some of your photos.
I was wrong in my thinking about probably most of you, I am not self rightous
I am a bigger hoe than a lot of you and a smaller hoe than a lot of you, and I wish that my wife did some of the things sexually as good as you guys. Lets face it guys we are all subject to be judged for something or nothing but when you are judged, you can take it, correct it , or forget about it.
My previous post was not to piss anyone off I am sorry if I did, I was just voicing my thoughts and saying how glad I am that I was wrong about them about you.
I recently read an article that said that their are 18 million NEW cases of sexually transmitted diseases every year.
About five years ago it was in the area of 10 million. Those numbers are not because WE are monogamous.
Ty

[BIBI]

I'm not telling.

[Loulabelle]

I am sorry for implying that you all are promiscuous. I'm not saying that you all are I did think that most people are(in our U.S. society),and I am quite sure that you all can think that I am to with some of my requests and comments that I make here about some of your photos.
I was wrong in my thinking about probably most of you, I am not self rightous
I am a bigger hoe than a lot of you and a smaller hoe than a lot of you, and I wish that my wife did some of the things sexually as good as you guys. Lets face it guys we are all subject to be judged for something or nothing but when you are judged, you can take it, correct it , or forget about it.
My previous post was not to piss anyone off I am sorry if I did, I was just voicing my thoughts and saying how glad I am that I was wrong about them about you.
I recently read an article that said that their are 18 million NEW cases of sexually transmitted diseases every year.
About five years ago it was in the area of 10 million. Those numbers are not because WE are monogamous.
Ty


I think the point that people were trying to make is that, in this day and age, no-one has the right to judge someone based on the number of sexual partners they've had.

Ever hear the expression, 'when your in a hole, stop digging?' ;)

[txgrneyes]

I have had enough to know what I like and dont like and how to get it.

But that is all I am saying....to much to think when it comes to numbers. :p

[Oldfart]

Judge?

No-one has the right to judge me on anything, much less my sexuality and what I do with it.

You can have an opinion, but judging implies moral superiority, and I admit that superiority

only to my god.

[jbh3]

Yes,7.

[Galatea]

Ok I just have to do this to see if I can...

1. Scott
2. Bill
3. Bruce
4. Chris S.
5. Chris C.
6. Chris M.
7. John
8. Jon
9. Jeff
10.Geoff
11.Ty
12.Dan
13.Ray
14.Shaun
15......oh fuck what was the cops name....shit...

Dammit, I was so close....ANYWAY!!! Now accepting applications for 16-20...Apply Within. ;)

[jbh3]

Can to be # 8?

[aberdeen06]

2.

And im now engaged to my first.

[IAKaraokeGirl]

Yes to the names, and the number is 17 (fifteen men, two women...four were very long-term relationships, the last being a permanent one). :) Ironically, if different choices had been made and situations altered, #17 would've been #1, and maybe the only one on the list. ;)

[marvel]

Very Very nicely said Miss Girl. You have my respect. ;)

[Galatea]

3 of my lovers have been women. some have been one night stands, and a feww have been long term relationships.

Shit i forgot the women....

16. Amanda
17. Melissa

[imaginewithme]

One man and he's now my husband.....

oh crap, what's his name again.... oh oh, "my baby's daddy"


(hi steph)

[kinkyashell]

4. Of course I know all their names.

[Wicked Wanda]

Oh my...
Three years later. I feel a bit more mellow about this question now, feel less like I am being judged.
A good thing, since I may be the biggest slut in Pixies.
I have no idea how many men I have fucked.
Following the rules strictly and ignoring all the fingerings, hand jobs, blow jobs, titty fucking (not that many, men don't like fucking little titties that much) etc, and including only the men I have actually had sexual intercousres with, (including anal)...
More than 140, less than 160... I think.
This number is no longer a big deal to me. Carry on and wail and pray and moralize all you like, I like, no I LOVE sex. And no I am NOT a sex addict. I do see, (or was seeing before I relocated) a psychiatrist, and I am NOT a nympho, sex addict, or lost child looking for comfort.
I am a grown, reasonably smart, sane woman who happens to have a certain relaxed attitude about my body, sex, and pleasure.
As I nurse and certified sex educator I am amply qualified to protect myself from disease.
(I would like to point out that the ONLY STD I have ever contracted was courtesy of a FUCKING RAT BASTARD (ex)HUBBY during the brief time in my life I was monogamous)
Variety is the spice of life.
I don't recall who said that, but it is so true for me.
Every person I have ever had intecourse with was diferent from every other one, different feel, scent, taste, responses, even body warmth. They each felt different, even the smell and feel of their breath on my skin. There were also different attitudes, techniques, and skills. They each in their own, sometimes very subtle way, made me feel different.
And before anyone asks, yes, many of these encounters were in group settings, such as a gangbang, and a couple of BDSM scenes that I loved.
These events were ONLY about pleasure.
Number of women?
Please...
I have no idea or desire to count. I have been with too many women to count, and more were in short term relationships than with men, but so what?
Women offer me more than just sex, (usually, but see group sex note above) but also offer a sort of sexual understanding that I find only in other women.
Besides,the rules said only intercourse, right?
That would mean only the women with whom strap-ons were used, giving or receiving, (that was smore than you might think, so PTHHHHHHHTTTTTTTTTTTPPP!!!!! to earthling 2) andI didn't even try to count those particular partners.
I started to answer this thinking maybe I had matured some in the last 3 years.
I still dont know.


WW

:loveshowe

[kinkyashell]

Wish I lived in Houston so I could be added to your list!

[Jamaicanguy]

5, and I do in fact remember their names and faces :).

[dicksbro]

One man and he's now my husband.....oh crap, what's his name again.... oh oh, "my baby's daddy"


(hi steph)

OMG, I wish I hadn't just taken a drink of soda. Oh well, another day another shirt. :roflmao:

My compliments, he's a very lucky guy; and you're a very lucky lady! ;)