hitachi
03-04-2003, 05:45 PM
I have a question mainly for the ladies, but everyone is encouraged to throw in their two cents worth.
I was thinking about the last time I returned home from a two week business trip. As expected my wife and I were VERY HAPPY to see each other, we had a very long slow romantic lovemaking session. After being away from her I just wanted to explore and caress every inch of her body, this in turn led to a lot of teasing on my part. Which my wife loves but gets impatient with, after a little begging I finally penetrated her, now I have never been one of those guys that can last for ever. Usually I can’t hold off for more than 10 minutes, and because off our long separation and the excitement of our reunion I could tell this was going to be even more of a problem. So while trying to prolong both her pleasure and mine I keep switching from long slow deep thrusts to pulling out and sliding my shaft and head along her lips and over her clit. This method has always been one of our favorite moves, but this time we took it to a new level. I keep up the switching tactic changing every couple of minutes and increased the teasing, focusing on her clit, building her pleasure but stopping short of her going over the edge. We keep this up for about 20 minutes before I could tell she was as close to Cumming as she could stand. She asked me not to stop rubbing my head against her clit. Always trying to be a good husband and wanting to please my lovely wife I did exactly what she wanted. I rubbed her clit over and over listening to her moans and gasps as she finally went over the edge with one of those toe curling scraeming orgasms that leave you totally breathless and shivering.
Now here is where the question part comes in. I let her recover from her orgasm for minute or so before she started to ask me to keep going so we started to make love again still in the missionary position, but after her intens orgasm she was so sensitive that she could not stand the contact. We both were still worked up that neither of us wanted to stop, so we changed to the doggie-style Position and had a little more successes but she still shivered a little too much and I could tell it was a uncomfortable for her. By this point I was close but not wanting to bring any discomfort to my wife I pulled out and finished myself off. After every thing was over she told me that this was one of the biggest and best climaxes that she has ever had, well at lest in a long time.
This is a recurring situation that keeps coming up in when my wife and I make love. Now I am NOT going to call this a big problem. I just want to know if this happens to any of you ladies or any of your wives, Do you get so hyper-sensetive that you cant continue?. Now while I cant see the point of not having or receiving such intense orgasms. Is there such a thing as TO MUCH OF A GOOD THING? And is it really that uncomfortable to continue after such a strong sensation. How long do you need to recover? And what should be done not to break the mood? I am asking because as a man once I have reached a peak like this, things kind of go numb (and limp) and continuous contact just is not possible. So I want some input to better understand what my wife is going through and why we cant seem to have multiple orgasms. I just want some different views. So tell me what you think.
I was thinking about the last time I returned home from a two week business trip. As expected my wife and I were VERY HAPPY to see each other, we had a very long slow romantic lovemaking session. After being away from her I just wanted to explore and caress every inch of her body, this in turn led to a lot of teasing on my part. Which my wife loves but gets impatient with, after a little begging I finally penetrated her, now I have never been one of those guys that can last for ever. Usually I can’t hold off for more than 10 minutes, and because off our long separation and the excitement of our reunion I could tell this was going to be even more of a problem. So while trying to prolong both her pleasure and mine I keep switching from long slow deep thrusts to pulling out and sliding my shaft and head along her lips and over her clit. This method has always been one of our favorite moves, but this time we took it to a new level. I keep up the switching tactic changing every couple of minutes and increased the teasing, focusing on her clit, building her pleasure but stopping short of her going over the edge. We keep this up for about 20 minutes before I could tell she was as close to Cumming as she could stand. She asked me not to stop rubbing my head against her clit. Always trying to be a good husband and wanting to please my lovely wife I did exactly what she wanted. I rubbed her clit over and over listening to her moans and gasps as she finally went over the edge with one of those toe curling scraeming orgasms that leave you totally breathless and shivering.
Now here is where the question part comes in. I let her recover from her orgasm for minute or so before she started to ask me to keep going so we started to make love again still in the missionary position, but after her intens orgasm she was so sensitive that she could not stand the contact. We both were still worked up that neither of us wanted to stop, so we changed to the doggie-style Position and had a little more successes but she still shivered a little too much and I could tell it was a uncomfortable for her. By this point I was close but not wanting to bring any discomfort to my wife I pulled out and finished myself off. After every thing was over she told me that this was one of the biggest and best climaxes that she has ever had, well at lest in a long time.
This is a recurring situation that keeps coming up in when my wife and I make love. Now I am NOT going to call this a big problem. I just want to know if this happens to any of you ladies or any of your wives, Do you get so hyper-sensetive that you cant continue?. Now while I cant see the point of not having or receiving such intense orgasms. Is there such a thing as TO MUCH OF A GOOD THING? And is it really that uncomfortable to continue after such a strong sensation. How long do you need to recover? And what should be done not to break the mood? I am asking because as a man once I have reached a peak like this, things kind of go numb (and limp) and continuous contact just is not possible. So I want some input to better understand what my wife is going through and why we cant seem to have multiple orgasms. I just want some different views. So tell me what you think.